"Work on your marriage - spend time communicating, understanding and compromising with your spouse. Maintaining healthy relationships with family, friends and loved ones are the most important things in life.
If you're facing marital problems and feel unhappy, consult a family counsellor before making a decision that could greatly impact the future of your marriage. Life's short and you deserve to be happy, so have your best interests at heart. Before deciding divorce is the answer, always consult a good family lawyer and get some legal advice. If it's your only option, consider mediation to resolve matrimonial issues amicably before filing for divorce and to overcome any post-divorce issues. During and after divorce, remember not to drag your child into the middle of disagreements. Children need their father and mother - be reasonable and always accommodate child access."
Rajan Chettiar Rajan Chettiar & Co (www.rajanchettiar.com)
Posted Jan 2010
