Romance IS alive in Singapore – Rebecca Hollingsworth shows you how to find it…
If you’re new to Singapore and finding it difficult to find romance, or have lived here for a while and have nearly given up on searching for a suitable partner, the number one thing to do is widen your social circle. Apart from clubbing and bar-hopping, playing sport or joining a club or an association, there are many great ways to put yourself out there and increase your chances of a romantic interlude!
Singles scene
How about trying the world’s largest online dating website? www.sg.match.com has inspired twice as many marriages as any other dating site. Aimed at expats, why not look for someone online – at least you don’t have to speak to them and you can pick and choose. Alternatively, post an image and details of yourself and get other people looking at you – now that seems even easier. Start browsing today – it’s free! www.sg.match.com
Alternatively, visit the Social Scene thread on the Community Message Board at www.TheFinder.com.sg and put your love search out there. Even if you don’t meet Mr or Mrs Right straight away, you’re sure to find a great network of friends to widen your social circle.
Lunch anyone? If you’re tired of the club and pub scene, or uneasy about meeting people through online chats, try Lunch Actually. Meet a potential partner over lunch, coffee or even after-work drinks. Lunch Actually does all the pre-screening, coordination and confirmation. All you need to do is show up and enjoy! www.lunchactually.com
Making the first move
Ladies, according to www.askCLEO.com guys are just as afraid of rejection as you! So, instead of waiting for him to make the first move, why not just take matters into your own hands?
The sassy experts at CLEO suggest if you find first dates scary, you don't have to necessarily ask him on a “date”. Try finding common ground by suggesting meeting up for an activity you both enjoy. Keep it casual, so there’s no pressure on either of you to live up to the expectation of a date. If he says no, at least he knows you're interested. Don't let the rejection get to you – concentrate on building the friendship. You never know when your patience will pay off.
If he says yes, plan where and when you’ll go out – and don't forget to have fun! Since you asked, you should pay for the date, unless he insists. If he wants to pay, don’t argue! He’s just tapping into his gentlemanly instincts. It could also indicate he’s serious about pursuing you – which is what you were hoping for in the first place! On a first date, the movies or a busy place where there are a lot of people are your best options, that way, there won't be any awkward silences.
Hot dates
Celebrate your love at WineGarage on Valentine’s Day and you’ll receive two glasses of sparkling wine with every two main courses ordered. WineGarage offers French, Italian and Californian-inspired cuisine – complemented by an extremely extensive wine list featuring reds and whites from all over the world. 30 Merchant Road, #01-07 Riverside Point. Tel: 6533 3188, www.winegarage.com.sg
From now until April 30 2009, Phuket’s exclusive Trisara Resort is offering a special rate of US$590+++ per night in a signature Trisara Ocean View Pool room, inclusive of breakfast. Enjoy a stress-free escape at one of South-East Asia’s most intimate and luxurious resorts. Tel: +66 7631 0100, www.trisara.com
There’s a girl for every boy!
How to Talk to Girls is the title of a new book written by nine-year old Alec Greven, which offers unique advice based on his observations during recess, class and his own personal experience! A fun read, this book shows you how to get back to basics and stop analysing matters of the heart. Some of Greven’s tips include – comb your hair and don’t wear sweats, control your hyperness by cutting down on sugar if you have to and don’t act desperate. Whether you’re eight or 80 this book remains relevant. Available in major bookstores, $14.95.
Recipe for love
Even if you’ve been with your partner for a while, there’s always room for a little romance. How about making some effort by preparing something special at home. For easy recipes check out the Wine & Dine section at www.TheFinder.com.sg, now featuring step-by-step suggestions from the kitchen of Singapore Women’s Weekly. You’ll also find a wide range of dining options and restaurant reviews. Categorised by Cuisine Type and Dining Style, choosing where to dine has never been so easy!
Posted on Feb 09
